Breakup manual with failing boyfriend
The relationship between men and women in modern times is inevitable, but how can we maintain a ladylike attitude while breaking up?
You first have to think about how to maintain dignity and face when breaking up.
When leading to a breakup, there are a few of the most frequently asked questions. You can ask yourself and be mentally prepared. Although it may not guarantee a smooth and smooth breakup, it will at least prepare you., Understand that you are about to face a situation that can not be controlled.
What are the signs of a breakup?
How do you know you should break up with him?
The extreme difference in living habits is a point that should be considered. He doesn’t like the way you talk on the phone for too long and doesn’t like the way you chew while eating.Not far away.
What’s more frightening is that if you have to quarrel two or three times a week, I suggest that you promptly break up with him.
After all, a bastard boyfriend is a bastard boyfriend, he can’t change, and having him will only make your life worse.
When you decide to break up, what should you do?
The years have changed.
In the past, we were familiar with the endless breakup, and the protagonist has changed from female to male.
That’s right, judging from the bitter experience of many women, the hard work of today’s men is not covered.
So when you have the idea of breaking up, the first thing you must consider is where you can hide.
First decide where to flee, prepare your favorite items, and when everything is ready, you can speak.
Is the reason for breaking up important?
Is the reason for breaking up important?
This is a matter of opinion, and it depends on your attitude towards the relationship.
If you think others are good, and if you ca n’t be your lover, you can help yourself as an ordinary friend, then you can think of a good reason mildly and euphemistically, of course, you don’t necessarily have to say anything.
You can list some of your disagreements, or let busy work distance you from each other. If he really looks like you think, no matter how unwilling he is, he will barely make it difficult.Accept it.
And if he is too tired to be your ordinary friend, you don’t need to consider that much.
Directly told him “I don’t love you anymore”, forgiving him like a wounded beast like falling into the mist, and I don’t know how to react.
In order not to give the other party any room for fantasy, the reason for the breakup must be short and powerful. Do not be gentle and gentle because of fear of hurting the other party.
What was his personality when carefully choosing the place to break up?
Is it easy to get out of control?
Maybe when you hear that you are going to break up?
If this is really possible, I suggest you choose your breakup point carefully.
Find a place with a lot of people and tell him when you are not ready, and then slip away with grease on your feet.
Or go to a public place where guards are often patrolled.
For example, he told him in your office building that you wanted to break up, and even if he wanted to get angry, he would be slightly tempered by the eyes of others.
In addition to patrolling those who have the right to execute, any occasion that can make him feel free and unrestrained can prevent him from doing unfavorable actions because he suddenly heard the breakup.
Choosing the right time to break up is important.
At what stage of life is he currently?
What are you focusing on?
What will happen to him if they break up?
If you leave him because of his derailment, it doesn’t matter. You can burn all the love letters to you in his presence and tell him that you don’t want to keep the garbage anymore.
But if this is not the case, and he is facing such bad luck as being laid off and unemployed, I suggest you suspend the breakup.
You can alienate him for busy work and wait for the grand reason, and leave him after he stands up again.
In this way, you will not lose the gentleman’s demeanor, and have good intentions and good rewards, I believe that your next man will be better. Symptoms after breaking up: He says he is willing to change for you, what if he is willing to change for you?
You must hold your foot.
Now that you’ve decided to break up, don’t look back easily.
Because men know that women are most likely to abuse compassion, and often maintain the status quo for the so-called love.
At this time, he will suddenly become a person and become the ideal object in your mind: always be personable, always go home after work, be gentle on the bed, help you share the housework, and buy things for your date.
Never be fooled by flowers, so lose your way.
The change he made was only temporary, and you must recognize it.
It’s okay to collect flowers, but it must not shake the army.
Symptom Group 2: He cried!
This is a problem that many women encounter.
This is the new century. Men used to say that they do not cry or flick, but now men have also learned to vent their emotions with tears in time and use the tears to melt the ice in your heart.
Tears are really effective in touching women’s emotions.
Seeing a man’s tears will awaken a woman’s potential motherhood, and now you want to open his arms and embrace him.
You want to comfort him and tell him that you are wrong. You haven’t figured out the facts, but you still love him.
And so, his purpose was achieved.
Maybe he doesn’t know what he’s doing, but it turns out that things have changed, so the correct way is: if you really decide not to walk with him anymore, face his tears, tell him to wipe clean,Pass him a tissue.
Symptom 3: What do you think of breaking up as a mistake? Assuming that you have successfully broken up, and you start to regret it, what should you do?
Think about it. In the process of breaking up, both time, place, and attitude, you handled it very well, neither left him when he fell down, nor embarrassed him in front of friends.
That’s fine. You just need a little courage.
But if you have severely insulted and hit him during the breakup, then I am sorry that your compound vision is not optimistic.
But don’t forget that at the beginning of the breakup you will have a period of emotional fluctuations and judgment will be disturbed, so you better not rush to compound with him.
You can find a place to calm down, such as outskirts or simply take a short trip to make yourself think about it. The idea of compounding is really because the old love is unforgettable or because it is not used.
It is best not to have any contact with each other as soon as possible.
After all, even if you want to recombine, you must first know how much weight he has in his heart.
In this period of leaving him, let him know how uncomfortable it is without you, so once you have a chance to reunite, he will definitely cherish you more, then this part of the road is not worthless.